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How to Live a Romantic Life While Without a Relationship.

Being single is an important life phase, or it can be a happily chosen lifestyle. It can be one of your greatest periods for personal, individual, growth and self-discovery. Make the most of the singles life: do what you want to do - pamper yourself, set goals, read your favorite books, watch your favorite movies, meditate, take classes, nap, decorate, meet with friends, sing, write, find your passions, do what you enjoy.

True, the name "Single Goddess" might be a bit campy, but the purpose is serious: to share with women in celebrating their independent spirit, and to help and encourage single women who are unhappy to find themselves, to love themselves, and to seek happiness from within. We believe in the power of love and the value of quality relationships, but we also stress that before you can ever be happily coupled, you must first learn to be happily single. You must find and love the beautiful goddess within you before anyone else will see her.

Single can mean whatever you want it to mean: single, divorced, dating, widowed, etc, etc. We are not advocating singleness, as much as affirming the value of where you are in your life right now, as you are.

If you are a single woman, this is your home on the Web. Welcome!

What is a Single Goddess?

Happy 2010! How are you going to empower yourself further for the new decade? What old habits are you going to set aside, and what new challenges, experiences, and improvements are you going to incorporate into your life? This is as good of a time to take stock in your life as any! Wishing you the best of everything in the new year!

Concept for the New Year

I want to share a concept with you. I hear all the time from women who are concerned with being alone. First, remember that language is a powerful thing. It can mold and effect how we think. Let's begin by taking that word "alone" out of our vocabulary when used in a negative connotation. I prefer the terms "on my own" or "by myself". Example: I'm going to take a trip by myself. I enjoy going to the farmer's market on my own. I'm going to take that cooking class by myself. I went to that investment seminar on my own. This is more empowering language. Replace the thought "I'm afraid of being alone" with "I sometimes enjoy doing things on my own, but sometimes I would like some companionship." It's much healthier to think of wanting a companion in this way, and acknowledging (or learning) that much of life can be enjoyed while being on your own.
Love & Best Wishes, Renee
singlegoddess@hotmail.com.

Your Daily Assignment:

Repeat this mantra every day, as many times a day as you desire until you believe it and live by it with all your heart.

The Single Goddess Mantra

I am unique and individual.
I am constantly growing and discovering myself
and the world around me.
I respect myself, as I respect others.
I will only partake in healthy relationships.
I find contentment from within,
whether I am in a relationship or not.
When I do love, I love fully and completely,
and expect nothing but the same in return.

What this site is NOT about:

This is NOT a man-bashing site. Although it is designated as a site for inspiring and nurturing single women, it is not meant to be anti-men. In order to be whole, happy, and content, you cannot harbor resentment for 50% of the population. It is my wish to inspire light, joy, and harmony for your heart and soul. We can't do that if we are harboring blame, anger, or self-pity in ourselves. SingleGoddess is about celebrating your life and yourself as an independent woman. I could have made this site for both genders, but I believe using my own experiences and insights as a woman are more meaningful than trying to be all things to all people. I think men are wonderful beings, but I chose to address singleness from a woman's perspective.

Contact SingleGoddess:

You may contact me at:

singlegoddess@hotmail.com